aw don’t be apologetic you didn’t come across any type of way
i think when you talk about computer stuff you gotta be brutally frank because thats how computer stuff is, its all a 0 or 1 no room for any maybe, there are a lot of computer people at my work so I get used to how super friendly they are in person but could be accidentally read as brutal in text
but even tho computer people like me talk that way i generally enjoy the stimulating thoughts and challenge of articulating so you kind of have to imagine a jovial person with their coffee bapping at their keyboard in a cafe patio with a bird chirping if you’re gonna read feelings into text. if someone was actually annoyed by something boy howdy theyd tear u a new one and ud know it.
theres probably a better essay somewhere on the dichotomy of frank blunt communication of happy silly people in computer work but i felt like rambling